Wedding Advice – The Budget

Wedding Advice – The Budget

Getting married should be the best day of your life and for most it is. We have been to hundreds of wedding’s in the studios 30 years in business. However once and awhile we come across a couple who seem overwhelmed by the whole spectacle that comes with the wedding industry. You get seduced by the glitz and glamor of it all. Being honest, so do we from time to time. But it should not put a burden on your finances. That’s a terrible way to start your marriage.

We suggest you look at what is important to you both and try your very best to stick within a budget. Far too many times we can see that couples go a little overboard. That can be anything from cakes to decor to flowers. All of that is fine, but if is well above your budget that can hurt more than help. We can see the stress grow with clients as the day gets closer when they choose to book certain levels of service that they cannot fit within their budget.

You should both be ready to discuss compromises as there is a good chance you both have different views.The bride may really want those cool chair covers at $15 each. The groom may really need to rent that brand new Ferrari to take you around town. It is a great first test that gets you ready for your married life. Any outside influence should be heard but not taken to heart. This can be friends, family, and even those within the wedding industry. At the end of the day you are the two left standing after all the cake and food has been eaten. When you open up that wedding album there should only be reminders of a great day.

CC

My photography “ah-ha” moment

My photography “ah-ha” moment

I enrolled at Sheridan College for photography right after high school. Or I should say right after I stayed one more year in high school after graduating. To find myself…or as I like to mention it now play one more year of football. After the football season was over…I mean my high school career was over I headed to Sheridan on a mission. To take the world of photography by storm and become the next Helmut Newton.

Within the first semester I felt trapped. The assignments were very “level one”. I felt that I already knew black and white film and printing as I was already printing in color at my fathers studio for years. This is before photoshop and digital cameras. I time where you could go into a darkroom and create something that felt like magic. The image would appear right before your eyes, just like magic. You can laugh all you want about it but it was pretty cool.

Anyways back to the story…I Would turn in assignments on time but I put in a very low effort. It’s not that I didn’t care but I felt “above” it as many young people do. I never failed but I would just get by and as the months passed I just coasted. Until one assignment was given that changed everything. We were asked to photograph a cover for a fictional abstract art magazine. There was not one mention of a theme or guideline. Just make the image that you want.

I received the highest mark in the class. I will never forget my teacher Bob Hundert when he said to me after handing in that assignment. He asked how I came up with the concept? It was really just 3 empty wine bottles at different depths of field. I never really thought about it before but I knew right then and there that I wanted to make my own images and not what I though everyone else wanted.

That was my “ah-ha” moment.

CC

Best of 2016

Best of 2016

Here is our latest and greatest slideshow from our favorite wedding images of 2016. It was an awesome year shared with outstanding clients. Clients who allowed us to create awesome images. As always we tried to push the boundaries of what wedding images are these days and our clients understand that. That’s why when we ask to something that may sound crazy we are never met with questions, just great images.

Even some of the bridal parties and even parents got in on the different. I guess our bride’s and groom’s let them know that this may not be your regular wedding day walk through the park. That’s because we rarely walk through any park at all. It can be an alley, forest, abandoned building, etc. We want to make the day memorable and different for everyone, including us. Each and every year we try to be different at every event when it comes to the images we create.

Sometimes our crazy ideas do not work and that’s ok. According to Wayne Gretzky “You miss 100% of the shots you do not take”. If the great one says it, it has to be true. We live by that motto in our everyday life as well. You just never know what may happen. All you need to do is try. If we didn’t try we would never get awesome shots along the lakeshore in a spot that will no longer be accessible in the future. Other times we may mess up the color and change it to black and white. But you will never know and we will just call it artsy. That’s kind of a joke.

CC

WEDDING ADVICE – The Suit

WEDDING ADVICE – The Suit

If I had one thing to change from my own wedding it was the suit. AND ONLY THE SUIT. Everything else was unbelievable. They day went great apart from the nerves and tears of joy. There was nothing that I can look back on as we watch the video and flip through our album with regret. Other than the one thing that I am wearing in 90% of the photos. I wore a Superman t-shirt underneath my suit and that was used the other 10% of the time.

My suit was a rental. It never fit right on me and I always wondered how many guys had worn this same suit and where and when and with who. I wish I had bought a custom suit. Something that for me perfect as well as looked cool. Cool for at least 10 years at which point my children could start making fun of it, as I did my fathers. For the record my parents were married in 1978 and everyone during that era had beige suits with brown lining. Complete with pirate style ruffled shirts and those 3 story high platforms.

My suit should have been a three piece masterpiece. Possibly grey although I’m not sold on that.. Add a nice top hat of some kind. Not to wear just to hold in my hand. Not sure about the tie, maybe bow tie maybe not. But the pocket square would be blue to match my socks and Superman t-shirt underneath. Cuff links would be vampire teeth. I may also have a smoking pipe in the hand that is not holding the top hat.

Now I understand that this all sounds crazy, but it’s my crazy. In the end I choose to settle for something that I did not want. I look back and that is the only thing I would change. I guess I should be happy about it but why not reach for perfection. My point is this. If you are getting married and are thinking of renting just take a step back and realize that this is your wedding day. You may want to be yourself and there is nothing wrong about that. As Sting says “just be yourself no matter what they say”

CC

10 Things You Didn’t Know About Me

10 Things You Didn’t Know About Me

In 2017 we will get a little personal…I hope you don’t mind. We will take a look at many things in our studio’s day to day life. We find them interesting and hope that you might as well. What better place to start than a list of things that you don’t know about me (Chris). Sure you may know that I am the lead photographer at Studio Cabral and I am happily married with a daughter. But your here for the dirt. So without further delay here are 10 things you didn’t know about Me.

One…I LOVE the television show The Walking Dead. I cannot miss a show and I am genuinely grumpy if I am 5 minutes late for it on Sunday’s at 9pm. I watch every interview and any spoiler video there is on YouTube related to the show. I will have full blown debates with people on anything that relates to the show. I do not take notes but it’s real close. I have theories and show ideas. It has gotten a little crazy but I think I can handle it.

Two…I will carry a notebook with me everywhere. You never know when an idea hits you and when it does I am ready for it. I get that I can use my phone for that but there’s something about writing something done that makes the universe help to make it happen.

Three…I have an addiction to Mike & Ike’s candy. I have been given a tip of two boxes of Mike & Ike’s on two separate occasions and it was just awesome. Thanks Sarah and Kari!

Four…I will watch any vampire movie ever made. It is a massive fascination I have had since a child. For Halloween in 7 consecutive years I went as a vampire. My grandmother made me an awesome cape that I still have.

Five…If I had one choice for a last meal it would sushi. Any kind made in any way and if it looks weird I would like to eat it. Wasabi or no Wasabi it doesn’t matter. My favorite spot in Toronto is New Generation. If I had a second choice it would be a veal sandwich.

Six…If I have any spare time I am reading. I love to read books, not kindle and or an iPad. Physical hand held books that I can turn the page. My areas of interest are pretty vast but history, business and an Anne Rice vampire novel are top choices.

Seven…I am sure that I may be the only person I know who will have a daily quota for everything. I try to get in a certain amount of reading, walking, thinking, phone calls, photographs taken and just about anything else. I track it daily. I find that it helps keep me balanced.

Eight…I can watch the movie Notting Hill on repeat. Hugh Grant is the man.

Nine…Any sports team that represents Toronto I will cheer for. Even when they are terrible to watch as the Toronto Maple Leafs have been for years. But in their case there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Ten…The best for last. The Beatles. The greatest thing that ever happened to music. Any song at anytime for any situation works for me. Having a bad day? Having a good day? Play any song by The Beatles.

Thanks for sticking around

CC