The 5 Wedding Day Subjects No One Wants To Discuss With You

The 5 Wedding Day Subjects No One Wants To Discuss With You

The Bridal Party

Don’t expect them to go along with all of your decisions. It’s human nature and that’s what makes us awesome. We are all different and like different things. Keeping this in mind do not expect the bridal party to spend all of their money on their attire for the wedding day. Have that discussion before hand to save an embarrassment. That dress is really nice but will all or your bridesmaids spend $500 on it plus alterations? As well it;s not up to you to babysit the rowdy ones in the bridal party. You know who they are and maybe if you are worried about their behavior you need to second guess theme being in the bridal party.

Complaints

Do not expect everyone to be cool with your decisions. This could be anything from venue to limo, someone will complain about something. It wouldn’t be a wedding without it. Just let it go because it will happen and most of the time it is from someone you least expect. At the end of the day the choice is always yours when it comes to your wedding day.

The No Shows

At every wedding reception there will be the ” No Shows”, you cannot really worry about these people. There is always something that comes up and you don’t really need to get an explanation from them. Chances are you will never know the real reason for them not coming to an event they had already confirmed their attendance. If they did not care enough to come they basically gave you their answer.

Your Timeline

No matter how precise your timeline is there is a very good chance that things may not run on time, and that’s fine. These things happen as anyone familiar with Murphy’s Law can attest. Not everything will be perfect and you need to be cool with that. Or your stress level will make you say and do things you may regret later. Trust your vendors and they will do an awesome job but losing a few minutes here and there will not put a damper on your wedding day.

We Will Not Be Attending

Do not take offense to any invitations are returned to you with a check beside the box marked not attending. There will be at least 10% of your invited guests that will not be attending, it’s science. This could be for multiple reasons but you should never lose sleep on those who will not be attending. You need to focus on the guests coming, those are the ones that matter.

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